Talking to children

The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 has made a significant impact on how domestic abuse is understood and addressed in the UK. It recognises children as victims in their own right, regardless of whether they were present during abusive incidents. Find information here on what to do if a child talks to you about domestic abuse.

Talking about domestic abuse

If a child talks to you about domestic abuse it is important to:

  • listen carefully to what they are saying
  • let them know they have done the right thing by telling you
  • tell them it is not their fault
  • say you will take them seriously
  • do not confront the alleged abuser
  • explain what you will do next
  • report what the child has told you as soon as possible.

You can find out more on the NSPCC website and Young Minds has a Parents Guide to Support that you may also find useful.

Support if you are concerned

Please contact the Somerset Domestic Abuse Service on 0800 69 49 999 or email domesticabuseservice@somerset.gov.uk.

If you are concerned about the risk of domestic abuse to a child, refer to the how to make a referral page.

Last reviewed: December 1, 2025 by Michael

Next review due: June 1, 2026

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