Domestic abuse affects every type of community – towns, cities, and small villages alike. But for people living in rural areas, the experience can look and feel very different.
Somerset’s geography, with its scattered villages, narrow lanes, limited public transport, and tight-knit communities – can create unique challenges for people experiencing domestic abuse and for those trying to support them.
Understanding these challenges is the first step towards ensuring that no one feels isolated or invisible.
Distance and isolation
Living miles away from neighbours, shops, or local support services can intensify the sense of isolation that so often accompanies domestic abuse. In many rural households, people may be physically cut off from:
- Friends and family, who may live far away
- Mobile phone signal, which can be poor or inconsistent
- Safe spaces, such as libraries, cafés, or community hubs
Long distances between villages can make it easier for abusive people to control where someone goes, who they see, and what they do. Limited broadband or phone reception can also make it harder for someone to reach out for help discreetly.
Transport Barriers
In parts of Somerset public transport can be infrequent or completely unavailable. This creates additional risks:
- People may feel trapped, unable to leave safely or access services.
- Attending appointments with health professionals or support services can be difficult without a car.
- Opportunities to confide in someone – such as during the school run, commuting, or visiting a local shop – may be limited.
Where someone relies entirely on their partner for transport, the imbalance of power becomes even greater.
Small communities and social stigma
Rural villages often have strong community networks, something many residents truly value but this can also create barriers.
In small communities where “everyone knows everyone,” people may fear:
- Being judged or disbelieved
- News spreading quickly
- Damaging their family’s reputation
- Running into the abuser’s relatives or friends whenever they seek help
This fear of stigma can prevent people from speaking out, even to those they trust.
Perception of fewer local services
People in rural areas sometimes assume support services are too far away or simply do not exist. Although help is available across Somerset, it can feel out of reach due to geography, transport, or lack of awareness.
That is why Somerset Domestic abuse Service’s Community Drop-Ins are so important.
Support in your community – Drop-In Sessions
To make support easier, especially for people in rural or isolated locations, the Somerset Domestic Abuse Service offers Community Drop-Ins across the county. These sessions give you the opportunity to talk directly with a member of our team in a safe, welcoming environment.
What to Expect
When you arrive, you will be greeted by a member of staff who is there to support and guide you. Each session is entirely led by what you need. You might simply want a few phone numbers, or you may be ready to start a conversation such as:
“This is what is happening to me — what can I do?”
“What support is available?”
“Where do I start?”
No appointment is needed unless stated, and you do not have to give your name.
More information and a list of locations can be found here: Community drop-ins
How you can help others
If you live or work in a rural community, you can play a crucial part in recognising and responding to domestic abuse:
- Check in on neighbours, friends, or colleagues who seem withdrawn or anxious.
- Listen without judgement if someone opens up about their relationship.
- Share information about drop-ins, the helpline, and support services.
- Report concerns if someone is in immediate danger.
Your awareness could be the lifeline someone needs.
Speak to Us
Somerset Council’s domestic abuse service operates year-round to provide advice, support, and resources for those affected by domestic abuse. Support is available for those experiencing domestic abuse.
For those who are concerned about their own behaviour please visit our Information for those causing harm page.
Confidential help and advice is available every day. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, contact Somerset Domestic Abuse Service:
- Call: 0800 69 49 999 (8am–8pm, 7 days a week including bank holidays)
- Email: domesticabuseservice@somerset.gov.uk
If you are in immediate danger, call 999. If you cannot speak, press 55 when prompted – this will connect you to the police through the Silent Solution system.
For those who are D/deaf, hard of hearing, or speech-impaired, register with emergencySMS.net to text 999 in an emergency. If you use British Sign Language (BSL), you can contact 999 BSL for BSL support.
